At a loss asked:

Me and my gf been going out for 2 years now. we used to see each other all we could but now we only see each other once a week. at first it was our different work patterns that made it hard to see each other as much, but now ita as if thats all she want. when we have the chance to see each other more, she rarely takes it up. so once a week it is and she calls that a relationship!

I want to see her more but she always finds an excuse not to, usually she ‘busy’, but never tells me what she doing thats more important than us being together.

this week we both on holiday and we spent sat to tues together. we went for days out to different places and as far as i know we both enjoyed it.

anyway, tomorrow she has a job interview and asked if it was ok if we didnt see each other tonight so she could be on her own to prepare for it. of corse i said it was ok, and added if she wanted the whole day to prepare or just chill before the interview then thats ok too. so she said could she have the whole day and i agreed.

I just text half hour ago to see if she ok because she always stresses out before an interview. she said yes she fine and decided to meet her friends in town. Now this has annoyed me somewhat because I gave up my day with her so she could prepare for the interview, not so she could go out with her friends.

she always doing things like this. usually she says she busy or tired so we cant meet up. then i find out she with friends.

I am annoyed but am i over reacting?

shirl asked:

to make a standing form that I could dress up for the different holidays, and just change the heads & costume to coincide with the season, .. I’m thinking maybe out of pvc pipe or dowels etc. Somewhat like the scarecrows and ghostley characters that you see this time of year. I’m thinking life size.
For the heads I’ll use the CabbagePatch Doll plan. Stuff nylon hose and sew in the features add eyes etc. Have done several heads already.

icu812 asked:

I’m convinced I don’t need an adjustment in my psycho drugs, that I just have a pattern of getting moody and sad at this time of year every year. No drug can fix it. It’s “all in my head”! I take my Seraquel and Topamax religiously as directed but I still get depressed on my birthday in October every year and it lasts until March (throught the tough holiday season which is touch for a whole lot of people). There’s got to be another answer besides more drugs! Any ideas??

xxheavenly-creaturexx asked:

i need help from any product design students!

i’ve just finished year 11 and about to go into 6th form next year. i’ve been set holiday work to produce a sketch book and portfolio of things. the portfolio is about Novelty Cards, and the sketch book is just for observation skills. it suggests i can do

-interesting items – annotated sketches
-effective use of materials, colour, fonts
-sketches of interesting detail – patterns, shapes, decoration
-photographs
-interesting magazine cuttings
-new innovative idead
-ideas of your own
-collected materials/ samples
-examples of effective graphic products

can anyone help me and suggest maybe what i could do for each of them because im soooooo confused, although i was going to try and incorporate something to do with fashion in there (from magazies)

any help will be appreciated!!!

Babylove asked:

I KEEP getting spiders in my house especially the kitchen, bathroom, front room and my bedroom where there is a vent. I find like 3 in my house everyday and they’re big ones! Its not one specific type of spider. Sometimes i get HUGE ones like the size of my hand (with legs) that are black and visable on a wall etc, But sometimes i get BIG ones that are see-through and camouflage into the wall paper etc. And sometimes they are black with light brown patterns/stripes on (fury looking).
Last week i found a HUGE black one on my wall in my bedroom and a fury looking one on my ceiling! Ever since I’ve been sleeping on the sofa, as they disappeared and I couldn’t find them in my room.
Tonight i come down to the front room to sleep and found one of the camouflage-types on the wall. I’ve killed it but now i can’t sleep!

Does anyone think these types of spiders may be dangerous/poisonous?? They tend to come out in the coldest parts or winter and during summer from like July-September.

A few years ago I went to America on holiday, there was a HUGE spider near the pool that was fury and looked like a baby triangular it could even swim! When we come back there was a spider in our suitcase. Ever since we’ve had a massive spider problem!!

Helena asked:

I spoke to an airline pilot a few weeks ago, and he said that he was going to be away for 4 days and 4 nights, and then he got three weeks off. Is this a normal work pattern, or was this just because he was taking holiday off?

This was a British Airways pilot BTW.

Tneciter asked:

Why do so many of us let good will last for a few weeks and then right after the holidays we go back to our dog eat dog existence? Why are these fellings so short lived and why do we revert back to our normal pattern of behavior?

Joan R – anti-bullying Lioness asked:

Without being continually harrassed and badgered about it for simply asking for *some* advice and support over issues which *may* seem “trivial” to some but are of worry to those of us who follow the news (which many parents these days cannot as they are too busy with their “careers”).
Examples : Teflon-coated clothing has *not* been proved to be safe – that is why the “cargo shorts” that my daughter-in-law bought for my eldest grandson last Summer for school were labelled “stain defence” *not* teflon (and they were not suitable for schoolwear anyhow).
Children *do* need an adequate amount of sleep for healthy growth and also a bedtime routine which ideally should not be changed for weekends or even holidays as patterns need to be set.
Children should not sleep in just underpants as it gets cold at night (even in Summer) and if they kick off the bedclothes they could get a chest infection – that is why pyjamas were invented!
I could go on but please could other Grandparents and decent parents too try to see things from a (loving)Grandparents point of view?
Given that I sucessfully raised four boys on my own don’t I at least deserve some respect from my daughter-in-law and other modern-day parents? -
The “Disneyworld Thing” is nothing to do with me – it is one of the childish,inconsiderate “clones” attacking me.
I have one indentity and one only and my joining date is 30 December 2007 not last night!
I also don’t see why an *eight*-year-old should have to do an hour or more homework *every* night and more at weekends too – teachers should be brought to book over that too as well as the parents who listen to their “advice”.
At eight year’s of age my boys were out playing in the fresh air not slaving over books – plenty of time for that later in life!

ormskirkginger asked:

What that beetles name? I can’t find in my book or at internet but its not Lucerne Leaf Beetle, different size from 4mm to 15mm, that was i saw them on my holiday in Czech Rep, many thanks

Goal: -6 by 0209 asked:

All holidays I have been sleeping at 2-3am and waking at 12-1pm. I wanna be awake by 9am at least, and I need to be awake at 7am for school. Is is a good idea to stay up all night tonight and go to bed at 9pm the next day? Will this kick my sleeping patterns into shape the fastest? I also need to remain awake to do lots of homework!