Me and my gf been going out for 2 years now. we used to see each other all we could but now we only see each other once a week. at first it was our different work patterns that made it hard to see each other as much, but now ita as if thats all she want. when we have the chance to see each other more, she rarely takes it up. so once a week it is and she calls that a relationship!
I want to see her more but she always finds an excuse not to, usually she ‘busy’, but never tells me what she doing thats more important than us being together.
this week we both on holiday and we spent sat to tues together. we went for days out to different places and as far as i know we both enjoyed it.
anyway, tomorrow she has a job interview and asked if it was ok if we didnt see each other tonight so she could be on her own to prepare for it. of corse i said it was ok, and added if she wanted the whole day to prepare or just chill before the interview then thats ok too. so she said could she have the whole day and i agreed.
I just text half hour ago to see if she ok because she always stresses out before an interview. she said yes she fine and decided to meet her friends in town. Now this has annoyed me somewhat because I gave up my day with her so she could prepare for the interview, not so she could go out with her friends.
she always doing things like this. usually she says she busy or tired so we cant meet up. then i find out she with friends.
I am annoyed but am i over reacting?
That would be a bit annoying, actually if that was happening all the time, yea I would be in your place. It sounds like the spark isn’t there any more. Take her on a date and do something she has always wanted to do. This is the part where you think back to those very first dates when you asked this question and remember what she wanted. Do something she wont forget and hopefully will bring the spark back if it doesn’t, this always happen, you can get through it. Good luck!
Maybe you should talk about what eachother wants out of the relationship. Maybe one of you arnt satisfying eachother enough. You are not overreacting. You sound like you love her so surprise her when you want to see her. Instead of ringing and asking. If she is busy tell her you just want a half an hour be sweet Good Luck