Comments on: Husband doesn’t text me when he is mad or with his siblings. Why is different?

By: Hot Coco Puff

Hot Coco Puff — Sat, 13 Jun 2009 06:57:14 +0000

You’re really going to have to ask your husband why he does anything. Oh, he’s moving out? Well, there’s your answer. Your marriage is over, so prepare yourself for a divorce. You may get some answers in the court papers.

By: Pat Shepherd

Pat Shepherd — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 14:08:32 +0000

You two have reached a point in your marriage where you both need to rethink your earlier decisions!
Maybe you can begin to develop a relationship with his family & he can try to respect your insecurities regarding his family!
**Good Luck To You**

By: Char

Char — Sun, 07 Jun 2009 06:10:17 +0000

In a marriage, you are part of his family and he is part of yours. When you can’t share family time with him, he becomes used to your absence. It is a separation or abandonment and pulls you away from each other. Sad fact is unless you engage in all things together, you will not grow together. Sorry for the pain you are going through. If you two don’t try to find a solution, it will get worse. Try counseling. It might help. C. !!

By: root chord

root chord — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 09:06:46 +0000

first years of marriage is heaven……. then the next years, everything slowly mellows down…and ten years…he would just be like a brother,,,….everything changes…nothing remains ideally perfect…he probably has reasons….reasons he cannot tell or is ashamed to tell to you…I’m sorry to hear you sad story…

By: Linda B

Linda B — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 00:34:42 +0000

The first thing I noticed is you trying to change him. I can’t change anyone except myself, and how I react. If I push this on someone else, the natural reaction for them is to pull away. The more I push, the more they pull away. I must accept others as they are and appreciate what I can about them. Otherwise, I can push someone I love right out of my life. Would you rather be happy, or would you rather be right? It is all up to you.
may peace be with you

By: becky :)

becky :) — Tue, 02 Jun 2009 02:52:25 +0000

he sounds very stuborn. he;s your husband not your boyfriend.. he should be taking your relationship more seriously – instead of acting like a child. you need to talk to him and get everything thats bothering you both out in the open.. it seems like your both keeping your feelings to yourself. tell him everything your upset about and tell him that he needs to listen to you. you have to work at a relationship becuase there are always times when things get hard.. the main thing is that you get throught them together. why does he want to move out? it seems to me like he’s running away and doesnt want to face the facts of the things that are bothering him. let him knw that your there for him and understand, also want to help. good luck!

By: sam_freudiger

sam_freudiger — Mon, 01 Jun 2009 12:51:10 +0000

it sounds to me like he’s just unhappy. He needs to realize that u n him are more important than his family making fun of u. it seems like he doesnt want to b bothered when hes around his family which he loves too its hard to play both sides of the field when it comes to ur family vs ur relationship