Jake asked:
Hey everyone.
I like a girl who is extremely beautiful to me. She’s outgoing, friendly, loves the beach, camping and relaxing. I love doing those things too and she’s told me that she wants to come along with me when I go up the coast next week for a holiday.
She seems to be open to us maybe getting together but I’m very self conscious. All my life I’ve copped abuse for being a red-headed guy and not a nice sight to look at.
Is it possible that by some freak occurance this girl mightn’t mind how I look when all others have taunted me to no end? I never thought that a female would like how I look.
I’m just a bit confused that’s all. Can any ladies help me out? What might her mindset or thought pattern be?
Thanks 
Remember the number one rule of attraction, you cannot control it…
Women have a different mindset to us guys, they dont base their possible partners on looks but on chemistry…so if you do go with her, act confident, show her that you arent afraid of her(it may be really hard but its important)
As the saying goes…”Men fall in love through their eyes, women fall in love through their ears”