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Winter solstice, christmas, pagan?

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Claudia R asked:

The winter solstice is on the 21st of december,and the sun comes back to normal on the 25th of december. This was celebrated bu many people around europe and asia, when they figured out this pattern, whith several traditions and rituals, and observed as a holiday. When the christians were converting the pagans, the made the pagan holidays as christian as could be, thus making the 25th a celebration of christs birth, and easter, originaly a celebration of the fretility god , to the ressurection of christ. Does anyone have more information on some of the traditions and celebrations concerning the winter solstice?

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I think I’m a chronic procrastinator, what can I do to help overcome it?

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potheadpenguin asked:

I’m overdue on almost all my coursework, the deadline is tomorrow and I still haven’t even started two essays. I’ve made a start on my geography coursework but still have to finish it.

My procrastination is also getting in the way of my social life, I broke up with my gf a few months ago for complicated reasons, I love her very much and when we broke up I was devistated, I hardly talked for likke two weeks and even now I’m recovering. I would like to get back together with her but I think she thinks I’m weak because of the way I treat my school work so I would really like to overcome it. I’m pretty sure I’ve also screwed around most of my friends because of it, I know for a fact that my teachers are getting pissed with me because of it and that I have to hand in the coursework (for my geography I got the deadline extended and I’m meant to email it to him so he can mark it tomorrow, it’s 1:30 in the morning now).

I’m pretty sure I’m addicted to the internet and my computer too. I guess that even writing this is delaying, to put it into perspective I managed to find the need to iron myself some pancakes two days ago because I didn’t want to do it. I don’t see why I can’t just get it finished like all my friends and then never have to worry about it again. I’m not trying to make myself seem bad so that everyone feels sorry for me and I **** my life the way it is, I get up, I go to school, I get back from school, I go on the computer, I go to bed; and it carries on going round and round. I practically live in my room and it means I don’t get to see enough of my friends, the prospect of going outside seems very hard to me at the moment, for m to go out I have to be invited and possibly persuaded to go somewhere and when I do go I find that I have fun.

I’m a reasonably bright person and managed to get myself into A level maths at 14 years old but managed to have to drop out from it because of my habits, I usually work well in school though but at home I can never get things done. Idk if this is relevant but I have a very bad sleep pattern too (it’s the holidays atm), I get up at 3 in the afternoon and go to bed at 5 in the morning. There was a point in time where I would go to bed when I got home from school, get up at nine in the evening, go on the computer then go to bed at six in the morning only to have to get up for school at eight again. I want to go to university too and I realize that the way things are going I won’t get to where I want to be so this is why I’m asking for some help, partly for my school work and partly for my friends and so I can hopefully get back with my ex. If there’s any more info you want then please ask.

Saying just do your work won’t work either, I don’t mean to be difficuilt but it’s been tried before and gotten nowhere. I also have these spur of the moment things when it’s late at night and I’m chatting to people on msn about it and it really makes me want to stop but then when I wake up the next morning the feeling is gone and I just go back to my old ways. I’ve also looked on the interent and it says I should attent life coach meeting or possibly get a coucelor, is this really necessary? Sorry for taking so much of your time to read this

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i can’t bring myself to do anything or care about anything?

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Mama Zoom asked:

i have really weird sleeping patterns i am really awake at night and sleepy during the day because its the holidays i stay up most of the night and sleep most of the day as in i go to bed at about 4am and get up around 2pm…when i do awake up i find i really hard to find the energy to get up knowing i have to get dressed and face the day and i dont really talk to my parents so i just spend time on my own and sometimes i feel really weird like im going to die for some reason and slightly crazy in the head.im constantly worried that i have terrible illnesses such as ms and parkinson’s disease because i get twitchy muscles and others things. i always find myself looking up symptoms on google and its controlling my life. i cant bring myself to try in school and its really effecting my results this does bother me but then at the same time i just dont care i dont have the energy to care i cant be bothered caring. i feel like i dont even have a future so why bother.

i also get really anxious and nervous all the time sometimes i will just be sitting on the couch and ill be extremely nervous and i dont even know why and because of this i usually feel weird and question why this happens i dont know what to do. i often get really sad for on reason and just cry and cry and wish i could talk to my parents or let someone know whats going on sometimes i feel like my thoughts have gone strange or i am in a a situation but im not really there or i am different not the same old me its like im looking in to a world that i am not in but i am watching from another room or something drinking really brings this on so i choose not to these days which doesnt help my social life or my shyness i jsut dont know what to do anymore i cant go on like this and i just want to get the old me back…. any suggestions?? i am 17 almost 18 if that helps
i also feel ridiculous posting this and i have tried to tell my mum she just said get on with it. which didnt help..just in case it seemed i had a really broken relationship with my parents.
so no one thinks i actually have an illness?? because it really scares me.

i do go to school boring school so one minute im with heaps of friends and thats fine and then the next im at home and i dont know anyone here so the change always makes me feel weird
sorry boarding not boring..

and i do have friends if i sounded like a complete loser…. they are just sick of hearing what illness i have now. but i havent talked to them about the rest.

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Where can I find some nice ideas/patterns for a light shirt or dress for before and after swimming?

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Annemi asked:

I need some patterns for a dress or long shirt to wear over my bikini for a trip to a holiday resort. Something feminine but not too frilly. In a schiffon or similar light-weight material.
I am looking for a pattern I can make at home.

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Chron’s Disease, Colitus?

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Lucinna asked:

Since last Sunday i have been experiencing at times unbearable abdominal pain. A pain hard to describe but it is like cramps (sometimes like period pain) and the feeling of being VERY hungry. I had not been going to the toilet very often but i was passing some small stools. The pain has persisted and i have tried antiacid pills (my grandad has some prescribed), indigestion medicine and milk of magnesia. I tried these because i thought i might have had excess acid in my stomach as it is my school holidays and i have changed my eating habits and patterns. However none of these medicines have worked and although i have tried to avoid caffine, spicy and very sweet or artificially sweet foods for a week no progress has been made.
However i have been keeping my fluids up by drinking milk and water and just today i begun experiencing diahrrea frequently. My stomach is making alot of noises which could be a good sign as my mother thought i might just have a stomach bug.
I have been researching conditions such as stomach ulcers, Chron’s disease, colitus and even bowel cancer and have found that i have many of the symptoms of colitus. I have often (not recently) found blood on the toilet paper after passing stools and thought nothing of it until now. I am quite worried that the rest of my life will be a variation of nightmareous, unpredictable pain and anxiety at a spell coming on.

Please bear in mind that I have experienced this kind of pain twice before. 3 years ago it was thought i had gas, and last year when i was in agony for 2 weeks. Both these times i was on school holidays. Could this be due to not eating breakfast? I never used to but about 3 months ago i started eating in the mornings?

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How tall can I get in future?

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Richi asked:

I asked this question recently, but, since I have recently learnt some more information regarding my height, I thought I’d ask again, being more specific. I’m 15 in 2 months-ish. I’m just over 5′8 in height. I weigh about 205lbs, but I’m not hugely fat as such. I have been described as “chubby”, but I’m not really…fat…just…well built? Hard to explain. Anyway, my mum in about 5′4 and my dad is about 5′9, about 1 inch taller than his father. My dad tells me that he used to be really tall for his age, until around my age when he began to slow down. He reckons he was ballpark same height as me at my age, perhaps a little shorter but he really doesn’t know. Worryingly, people at school are telling me that I look shorter, which obviously means that they are growing at a faster rate than me. I have not really noticed it myself, besides in a few cases. I’m worried that I’m following the same trend as my dad, and I’ll stop growing soon. But, what has confused me is that my dad is like, the meaning of skinny, where as I already weigh almost 5 stone more than him, and I am more well-built and stronger. I didn’t know where I got this gene from. I have recently learnt that my grandfather, who I don’t see very often, is actually somewhere between 5′11 and 6′2 (probably landing somewhere around 6′1 at his peak), and, he, to me looks a similar build as me, but, seeing as he is now 80, he is always hunched over and I can’t tell, he is on my mother’s side. Most of the rest of the males on my mother’s side I have met are rather short, shorter even than me, so I was hoping I’d missed that gene. I am also told that, while on my dad’s side, my grandfather was only about 5′8, roughly my height as I stand now, my great-grandfather was rather tall, possibly standing at around 5′10 or 5′11, although, I have never met him and my dad doesn’t remember in detail.
My diet isn’t great, bacon for lunch every few days, coco-pops for breakfast, have takeaways often for dinner, a lot of fizzy drink, especially coke, I’m trying to cut down. I have a glass of milk every day before bed, not sure if that means anything. My sleeping pattern isn’t that great, in school time I managed to get to sleep around 11.30pm-12am, and woke up at 7am, now that it is the summer holiday, I’m getting to bed anywhere between 12am-1.30am, and waking up around 9am-10am.
I don’t really do any sport to speak of, even though I am a bit chubby, I am very good in the pool, by no means in the same league as the water-polo muscular swimmers, but, out of several football and hockey players in my class last year, I was placed in the top swimming group, with the water polo team and all the really sporty people, and I was OK ability wise in there, which leads me to think that I am probably quite muscular, under the fat, or, I may just have talent, according to the teacher, and could be very good if I got fit and really tried.
I did an online height predictor, and it said I could fall somewhere between 5′10 and 5′11, I also did my brothers height. He is 16 months youger than me, and he is about 5′5. The height predictor said he would be about 6′, which, I know it’s pointless, but it has got me quite upset, unlike me, he is a skinny git. I’d like to reach 6′1 as me dream height, 6′2 if I’m lucky, but I’d settle for anything north of 5′11. Do you reckon I ever stand a chance of getting there?
Thanx

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How can i fall asleep earlier?

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willywalter asked:

I’ve been on summer holidays for the past 2 months and i have been going to sleep at around 2-3am every night.
I have to go to school in 2 days time and last night i tried to go to sleep earlier (to get back in my sleeping pattern for school), but i couldnt fall asleep till 1am.
How can i make myself fall asleep earlier?
Thanks

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what to wear with black lace and patterned tights?

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brenz asked:

i just got 5 pairs of black tights. 2 of them are black lace tights(with foot and not the thigh high ones) from bebe. the other one from bebe is plain black but with diamond print on it 1 of the lace tights are studded with like diamonds. the other lace tight is simple with floral patterns on it. then i have black sparkle tights from forever21. they are simple black but have like gold and silver glitters on it so they shine.

the tights are like this:
http://www.bebe.com/dp/B0026VAIE4/ref=sc_iw_c_0_1232951011?n=1232951011
http://www.bebe.com/Holiday-Look-Book-ACCESSORIES-Products/b/2236350011?ie=UTF8&ref=nav_bebe_t3_Holiday%20Look%20Book&pf_rd_r=03J86BWHV8RQ15VZQF72&pf_rd_m=A2FMOXN01TSNYY&pf_rd_t=201&pf_rd_i=B0026VAIE4&pf_rd_p=492969951&pf_rd_s=top-7
http://www.bebe.com/bebe-Contrast-Diamond-Tights/dp/B0026V8NU0?ie=UTF8&asinSearchPageIndex=5&navAsinList=B0026V8P0I%2CB0026VCF6I%2CB0026VCQHQ%2CB0026VCCOI%2CB002A4Q8KU%2CB0026V8NU0%2CB0026V8OAE&node=1232951011&field_browse=1232951011&searchSize=20&navAsinListIndex=0&id=bebe%20Contrast%20Diamond%20Tights&field_availability=0&searchBinNameList=null&ref=search_results_6&searchNodeID=1232951011&field_launch-date=-1y&searchRank=-product_site_launch_date&searchPage=1&pf_rd_r=0WAKNKJWC1ZW28J4SHD5&pf_rd_m=A2FMOXN01TSNYY&pf_rd_t=101&pf_rd_i=1232951011&pf_rd_p=495094551&pf_rd_s=search-results

please help me find the outfits for those tights (separately if you can). i have a black mini ruffle skirt and a cute black cami. i have a black knee length sack dress to with round neckline. i’m ok with any suggestions but i dont wear super micro shorts or skirts. i love ballet flats and i wear them all the time.

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Is this poem any good at all?

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My thoughts counter your answers asked:

I’m not that good of a poet. Is this poem any good? I call it….

Coded Language:

Whereas, breakbeats have been the missing link connecting the diasporic

community to its drum woven past

Whereas the quantised drum has allowed the whirling mathematicians to

calculate the ever changing distance between rock and stardom.

Whereas the velocity of the spinning vinyl, cross-faded, spun backwards, and

re-released at the same given moment of recorded history , yet at a

different moment in time’s continuum has allowed history to catch up with

the present.

We do hereby declare reality unkempt by the changing standards of dialogue.

Statements, such as, “keep it real”, especially when punctuating or

anticipating modes of ultra-violence inflicted psychologically or physically

or depicting an unchanging rule of events will hence forth be seen as

retro-active and not representative of the individually determined is.

Furthermore, as determined by the collective consciousness of this state of

being and the lessened distance between thought patterns and their secular

manifestations, the role of men as listening receptacles is to be increased

by a number no less than 70 percent of the current enlisted as vocal

aggressors.

Motherfuckers better realize, now is the time to self-actualize

We have found evidence that hip hops standard 85 rpm when increased by a

number as least half the rate of it’s standard or decreased at ¾ of it’s

speed may be a determining factor in heightening consciousness.

Studies show that when a given norm is changed in the face of the

unchanging, the remaining contradictions will parallel the truth.

Equate rhyme with reason, Sun with season

Our cyclical relationship to phenomenon has encouraged scholars to erase the

centers of periods, thus symbolizing the non-linear character of cause and

effect

Reject mediocrity!

Your current frequencies of understanding outweigh that which as been given

for you to understand.

The current standard is the equivalent of an adolescent restricted to the

diet of an infant.

The rapidly changing body would acquire dysfunctional and deformative

symptoms and could not properly mature on a diet of apple sauce and crushed

pears

Light years are interchangeable with years of living in darkness.

The role of darkness is not to be seen as, or equated with, Ignorance, but

with the unknown, and the mysteries of the unseen.

Thus, in the name of:

ROBESON, GOD’S SON, HURSTON, AHKENATON, HATHSHEPUT, BLACKFOOT, HELEN,

LENNON, KHALO, KALI, THE THREE MARIAS, TARA, LILITHE, LOURDE, WHITMAN,

BALDWIN, GINSBERG, KAUFMAN, LUMUMBA, GHANDI, GIBRAN, SHABAZZ,

SIDDHARTHA,

MEDUSA, GUEVARA, GUARDSIEFF, RAND, WRIGHT, BANNEKER, TUBMAN, HAMER,

HOLIDAY,

DAVIS, COLTRANE, MORRISON, JOPLIN, DUBOIS, CLARKE, SHAKESPEARE,

RACHMNINOV,

ELLINGTON, CARTER, GAYE, HATHOWAY, HENDRIX, KUTL, DICKERSON, RIPPERTON,

MARY, ISIS, THERESA, PLATH, RUMI, FELLINI, MICHAUX, NOSTRADAMUS, NEFERTITI,

LA ROCK, SHIVA, GANESHA, YEMAJA, OSHUN, OBATALA, OGUN, KENNEDY, KING,

FOUR

LITTLE GIRLS, HIROSHIMA, NAGASAKI, KELLER, BIKO, PERONE, MARLEY, COSBY,

SHAKUR, THOSE STILL AFLAMED, AND THE COUNTLESS UNNAMED

We claim the present as the pre-sent, as the hereafter.

We are unraveling our navels so that we may ingest the sun.

We are not afraid of the darkness, we trust that the moon shall guide us.

We are determining the future at this very moment.

We now know that the heart is the philosophers’ stone

Our music is our alchemy

We stand as the manifested equivalent of 3 buckets of water and a hand full

of minerals, thus realizing that those very buckets turned upside down

supply the percussion factor of forever.

If you must count to keep the beat then count.

Find you mantra and awaken your subconscious.

Curve you circles counterclockwise

Use your cipher to decipher, Coded Language, man made laws.

Climb waterfalls and trees, commune with nature, snakes and bees.

Let your children name themselves and claim themselves as the new day for

today we are determined to be the channelers of these changing frequencies

into songs, paintings, writings, dance, drama, photography, carpentry,

crafts, love, and love.

We enlist every instrument: Acoustic, electronic.

Every so-called race, gender, and sexual preference.

Every per-son as beings of sound to acknowledge their responsibility to

uplift the consciousness of the entire fucking World.

Any utterance will be un-aimed, will be disclaimed – two rappers slain

Any utterance will be un-aimed, will be disclaimed – two rappers slain

- Saul Williams
From 1-10 what score would you give it?

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What are all teen girl wardrobe essentials/basics?

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Rachel asked:

I’m doing a MASSIVE wardrobe clear-out. Here’s what I have that I’m keeping:

1 pair blue straight-leg jeans
1 pair black skinny jeans
1 black hoodie
few t-shirts (like 4 or 5)
1 small handbag (silver)
2 pairs flats (1 gold, 1 pink)
1 pair sneakers (pink)
1 scarf (blue)
few pairs stud earrings
1 plain black fitted jacket
1 purple winter coat
2 pairs fake ugg-style boots (black and brown)

That’s about it. I’d like to know EVERYTHING I should have, including clothes, accessories, shoes, jewellery, bags etc., including casual and formal. I wear a uniform to school, so don’t need that much of everything, just for weekends and holidays and after school. I don’t go many places requiring dressing up, so just 1 or 2 dresses that will work for any formal occasion and can be dressed down. I am 14, so everything must be age-appropriate, and also I don’t wear heels or makeup. I am a girly girl and love pink and floral patterns, and skirts and dresses. I also am obsessed with stuff for my hair – hairbands, clips, flowers etc. Where I live is usually chilly and rainy, so casual skirts and dresses that can be worn with tights or leggings are perfect.
All help appreciated!:)

☆Rachel☆
xxx ;)
I can’t order off the Internet. And a full list of everything please, including amounts.:)
I canNOT order off the Internet, yet again! And I don’t live in America, I live in Ireland, so there is no Forever 21, Wet Seal, Old Navy, any of those other shops. :) Just suggest ITEMS, or if there are any really nice things you can put a link and I’ll try to find something similar.

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